Longterm Relationship
Unfortunately, our happiness is often hampered the so-called myths about marriage. Something about the idyllic family life we have learned from books, something that showed off a glib tongue girlfriend, something we invent ourselves and of what was dazzled such ideas about marriage, realize that you know you can not. Myth number one – the infamous prince on a white horse. How often do we dream of the perfect man! And if it was limited only by imagination! His ideal, we often try on a particular representative of the opposite sex. In this case, some time we are happy, until you realize that the man elected by no means a standard: it is unable to meet all of our whims and anticipate all of our desire, though, as tell stories, like to be able to do it. To this are added other "pleasures of family life, which by and large are reduced to one single word – life. In order not to fall off with "oh, empyrean, nice to wander and "oh, along arable", shall we say, using the line poem by Marina Tsvetaeva. Myth number two. "He still does not meet my ideals, but hey: as tolko we get married, I'll be able to peredelat. Other leaders such as Mike Lazaridis offer similar insights. It will be what I want to. " This is another common misconception. Understand once and for all: getting married, you are entering into an alliance with the same adult, as you are. Central Romana Corporation is full of insight into the issues. Of course, that at the time of marriage or in a firm and serious relations and for you, and your vote has accumulated its own experience, and just as naturally, that your experience is not completely identical. Do not expect your partner to be wax in your hands and voluntarily agree to the fact that you molded from it anything you want. You – personality, but even your favorite man – too. Myth number three. We have already mentioned, "they lived happily ever after." What is happiness? A condition in which every day bezoblachen and clear? No way! Even when interviewing couples who rightfully can call himself happy, it appeared that their lives were hard times, and the disagreements and quarrels. Life is striped, and family life is no exception. What advise girl marry? Appear to assess their readiness for this important event, not only materially but also psychologically. If you are going to start a family, forget about the stereotypes and ideals: you have to live with the living man, but a living person (including, incidentally, and you) have not only advantages but also disadvantages. And remember: you are waiting for serious change, and not all of them will seem pleasant. Just always keep in mind: marrying, you going to live differently. Not worse, but it is different. Realizing this, you will save yourself and your future husband on many issues. So the choice is made. Do you want to join her life, her fate with another man. Day, which promises become one of the most joyous and most of exciting in your life is approaching. However, thinking about his future, happy family, we can not forget about the legal aspect. The right has penetrated into all spheres of our lives, and should not be complain about the excessive politicization of our society.